"When we’re incomplete, we’re always searching for somebody to complete us. When, after a few years or months in a relationship, we find that we’re unfulfilled, we blame our partners and take up with somebody new and promising. This can go on - serial monogamy - until we admit that, while a partner may add sweet dimensions to our lives, we, each of us, are responsible for our own fulfillment. Nobody else can provide it for us. To believe differently is to delude ourselves dangerously and to program every relationship to failure."

- Still Life with Woodpecker, Tom Robbins
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